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Sounds perfect Wahhhh, I don’t wanna
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Call me Ray (they/them)

i’m 24, queer, a haver of autism, a genderweird fagdyke and lots of other things i don’t feel like listing

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currently trying not to deteriorate before everyone’s eyes

interests: star trek, Connor rk800, weed, doll collecting, lolita fashion, trans/queer history, solarpunk, moomin, spiderman/spideypool, good omens, anime (V casual)

You will see furry content on this blog. smile and move along, folks

Please feel free to send asks!! i love to talk and answer questions!! or just tell me about your day!! 🌸✨

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my-turn-to-yearn

Had a panic attack at work last night and this clerk noticed and he got really close and said "hey look at me, just you and me" and then kept talking like normal and I looked away again and he stopped and more firmly said "look.at.me." and it made me a lil wet ngl

my-turn-to-yearn

Yeah this guy blew my back out this morning, follow your dreams everyone

my-turn-to-yearn

He has decided he's gonna do a fortnite emote after every time we fuck actually maybe reel your dreams in a little

multiple-myselves
syscoursebot

Alright, I'm going to go through all the different types of syscourse. I'm not going to get into detail on all of them. There are a lot. I only know the types that I have personally experienced.

(I'm not a medical doctor. I don't know all the medical details about all of these. Please do your own research and figure out the medical details for yourself.)

(Also, I'm not a medical professional. I'm simply a blogger. Please don't go around suing me for giving misinformation. I'm doing my best here, and I'm open to criticism. I'm learning as I go. If you find any misinformation, I will correct it. Thank you!)

(All the details mentioned in this post are theories. They are not facts. Please don't go around spreading these theories to anyone else. Thank you!)

  1. Transgender system.
multiple-myselves
atinystraykid

“If you have time to be on social media, you also have time for…” “If you have time to watch Netflix, you also have time for…” Yeah, but do I have the energy for it? Do I have the emotional and mental capacity for it? Am I pain-free enough for it? Can I focus on it? Can I do it without leaving my bed? Can I safely do it without risk of (physically or emotionally) injuring myself by pushing past my boundaries?

jeherion

Actually I DON'T have time.

I need insane amounts of rest to function. There's a good chance I'll also be on tumblr, chatting to a friend, listening to podcast etc. during that resting time.

But I can't use that time to do whatever I want, whenever I want, because pushing myself past my limits will make me feel like crap for days.

So technically it's NOT free time.

doomhamster

This is a very helpful way of putting it. Recovery time isn't free time; it's for RECOVERY. And if you're neurodivergent or chronically ill or anything in that register, it becomes even more mandatory because your mind and body will punish you that much more severely for neglecting recovery. (Though, uh, that is definitely a thing that will happen to you even if you're Perfectly Normal And Healthy, it just probably won't be as immediate or obvious! so you may not even notice it until it MAKES you neurodivergent or chronically ill!)

aqueerkettleofish

Your brain is a machine. Schedule downtime and maintenance, or it will be scheduled for you.

reallyverynormal
rosalind2013

I say this as someone who works at a nonprofit: the attitude “someone who has nothing will be grateful for anything” is harmful and dehumanizing when it’s used to justify donating something ripped, stained, or expired to someone less fortunate.

Homeless people deserve clothing with good structural integrity. Victims of house fires deserve linens that are free of stains. No one should have to eat expired food. It’s disrespectful to give people scraps when they’re already hurting.

Please, out of respect for your fellow humans, check the dates on your food donations before you drop them off.

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genderpunks

I think a lot of people on this website would benefit from hearing that back in 2011 when I was a part of my college's pride group, I was friends with a gay cis male drag queen whose roommate was a lesbian. They had sex with each other often, but it didn't stop my friend from identifying as a gay guy, nor did it stop their roommate from being a lesbian. Neither of them identified as bisexual. This kind of stuff happens between queer people of "conflicting" identities all the time, it's nothing new. There aren't any rules